You Get Treated Differently When You’re Fat.

There, I said it. Here’s My Story.

Shannon Benedetto
6 min readAug 23, 2023
in my experience, you are treated differently when you’re fat.
People Treat You Differently When You’re Fat / Canva

I know this is going to get either a lot of hate, or a lot of praise, maybe both, but it’s a big part of my life experience and one I wanted to share with you all.

I’ve always been “the chubby girl,” but I was never very overweight until my mid-twenties.

I think at my heaviest I was about 315lbs.

Flying was a nightmare.

Walking was a nightmare.

I finally lost it when my knees were in so much pain getting up from the couch that I was in tears. That was the first day I met with a personal trainer.

To make a very long story short, I ended up losing over 130lbs and went from a size 22–24 to a size 5.

It took me 3 years. Diet and exercise.

That was it.

But that’s not the point of this story.

I want to talk not about how I lost this weight (and then proceeded to lose over 100lbs again after my pregnancy in the same way).

I want to talk about how I was treated when I was a larger size and compare that to how I was (and am) treated at a smaller size.

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Shannon Benedetto

Im Shannon, I'm an intuitive tarot reader. My intent is to provide comfort and guidance to empower you to reclaim your life. www.shannonmarieesoteric.com